'Poinsettia-red lips' and hot, hip chicks

Now according to Lulu Phongmany, ‘Nothing says holiday glamour more than a set of poinsettia-red lips.’ Yeah, how about that. ‘For your next holiday outing, take a cue from your favorite Hollywood hottie and paint your lips a festive crimson hue.’

Not sure what you might think, but here’s my two cents worth. Some women can pull the look off – Faith Hill and some fail miserably. They come out looking like they smucked their lips while they were downing a bottle of ‘cheer’. You be the judge.

Keeping with the holiday tone, how about a bit of ingenious gift giving suggestions to get you going? We’ve been out pre shopping for you again and this is what we came up with this week.

‘Rocket balm is specially formulated for his pleasure. Let the tingling sensations and stimulating peppermint aroma take you on a journey of pleasure you will want to revisit again and again! Made in Canada.’ We thought that every man every once in a while deserves a little treat all of his own. If the giving mood hits you, perhaps this little score from LoveCraft might be just the ‘stocking stuffer’ you were looking for.

Feel like curling up and reading? How about taking a walk on the wild side yourself. We found this little read for you at Amazon.ca

Ripe Fruit

celebrates older women who love and enjoy sex more than ever. These women are not shy about expressing their needs and desires. Unforgettable characters in honest, complex relationships makes for exciting "grown up" reading.’

Continuing on the self indulgence theme. How about a tasty treat of chocolate? Imported too? ChocolatePlanet.com is an exclusive service that provides delivery of premium boxed chocolates across Canada. In June 2003, they launched the same day local delivery service in Metro Toronto, delivering Belgium chocolates flown in weekly by internationally renowned chocolatier, Leonidas. (Leonidas, the quintessential Belgian chocolate since 1913 who has been producing premium chocolates for millions of discerning chocolate lovers the world over.)

We are not sure why Winter brings with it a need to gain greater insight and perspective about oneself all the while indulging in self defeating, compromising activities (chocolates) However, it happens. So keeping on the pamper ourselves theme further, how about this book to satisfy your indulgences. We are talking about the justification of shopping my fellow Hot Cherry Chick!

Nothing leaves a hip chick guiltier than going out to do Christmas shopping and at the end of it all, comes home with more gifts to self than anyone else. Need to justify and perhaps save a bit of chi-ching? Try out Vintage and Consignment shopping. Want to make sure you are indeed getting a good deal?

Here’s the book for you:
Aligators Old mink & new money

by Alison Houtte - Whether you're a flea market veteran who savors the thrill of the hunt, a couture shopper with a Vogue budget, or are simply drawn to the de rigueur world of vintage, Alligators, Old Mink & New Money offers a shopping adventure—through auctions, estate sales, flea markets, and clothing racks all over the world—to be savored, and inspired by! '

We leave you with the gift of all gifts for the hip chicks on your list (just don’t tell them where you found it), the ‘Foot in the Door’, door stopper.

We all need a Foot in the Door. Just place the ever-so-dainty toe of this playful pump under the crack of your very own door and it will be held open in style.

A shoe-in for this year's favorite gift! Black or Red, with a grippy rubber coating, packed in a clear, draw-string bag.

Need further inspiration? Check out Perpetual Kid online.

Have a wonderful Cherry day all and remember, poking your eye out with a fork over Christmas shopping doesn’t help anyone!

Put on some red lipstick and take on the day..

Men become much more attractive when they start looking older. But it doesn't do much for women, though we do have an advantage: makeup. -- Bette Davis

I so needed a spirit lift..a boost to my morale... meditating or a Starbucks chai latte wasn't going to help at all this time. I had a wicked head cold last week ( I'm a whiner ..I know ) had a bout with a shawarma induced food poisoning episode this week...and my mother ( who is almost always a trip ) was mauled by her $1000.00 ragdoll cat, Star, who I call Montecore for obvious reasons. I mean MAULED...the cat launched an attack on my mother that resulted in her requiring stitches and antibiotics..hence a trip to the hospital..and since my mother does nothing without an entourage...my sister and I were summoned from opposite ends of Ottawa to escort her. Do animals ever suffer from psychosis?? I have often wondered about this since my mother purchased this fluffy, beautiful, but so obviously, heinous spawn from Hell .. I digress....anyway...

Today I went shopping...with full intentions of picking up Christmas stuff..but, in all honesty, I wasn't ' feeling it '. I WAS however feeling blah..icky..and sullen. I went to Bayshore..not my favourite mall in the world..but it's convenient. I was cutting through the cosmetics/skin care section and decided to stop to pick up a new bar of Clinique soap, since my youngest son had recently flushed mine down the toilet...a mistake he said...uhhuh....I waited at the counter....and waited.....shifting from foot to foot..clearing my throat...clicking my car keys on the glass countertop....the two attendants working the Clinique counter never saw me...I caught my reflection in one of the many mirrors and was saddened to discover that I didn't suddenly possess the Power of Invisibilty..they were simply ignoring me. I said...." excuse me girls...all I need is a bar of soap here." that seemed to make them happy, the fact that I wasn't about to be taking up too much of their time.. I paid and left. I was irritated but in all honesty...I have come to expect this level of service almost everywhere. I started past the M.A.C counter and stopped..something I rarely do because the M.A.C girls intimidate the crap out me....they're kinda like the really cool but somewhat bizarre drama class girls from highschool. All dressed in black..various streaks of colours in their hair...artfully applied lipsticks on perfect matte faces. I felt it was safe to stop momentarily because the M.A.C girls were huddled in a corner chatting and given the fact that customer service no longer exists...I figured I had time to peruse.

I was wrong....dead wrong.

The M.A.C girls are like mascara weilding ninjas. I didn't even see her come over...she just materialized in front of me. I heard her offer her assistance, and for a moment, I felt panic. Clearly I didn't belong here!! I look way more ' soccer mom ' than ' rockerchick'..and I've always associated M.A.C with trendy and young and so not me. I always purchase L'ancome or Elizabeth Arden or Clinique...all my makeup is ' neutral' or ' classic ' ...I think that translates to boring. I was fumbling for an exit line...and she said...( and this is where it gets weird )

" You have gorgeous eyes. If you have some time, I'd like to try some colours on you that I think would really look incredible? "

weird, eh?

a customer service representative actually OFFERING customer service??? AND a flattering remark to boot...and with that, the other two M.A.C girls approached, offering palette suggestions, application tips, seating me in a chair and working their magic like fairy godmothers...well ummm..not quite...more like fairy goth inspired ravers.

And I gotta tell you....M.A.C has some outstanding products. They chose colours I would simply never have tried...golds, fuschias, deep royal purples....I have greenish blue eyes and after an application of a seriously hot pink eye shadow called ' passionate ' my eyes looked ' awake' and the colour truly popped. You have to try the
StudiomistFoundation. ......very cool...amazing finish.

I was with the M.A.C chicks for nearly an hour...I bought a few items that I had to have..( I'll add the rest to my Christmas wishlist ) . Thanked them for the excellent service and left seriously happy.

It may have just been makeup, but it lifted my spirits. I felt great. It was that little something that took me out of my ' neutral ' rut...and now, I'm sold. M.A.C will certainly receive my business from now on and I'm sure after my mother tries some of their concealer on her cat inflicted scars..she'll be an avid fan as well...

http://www.maccosmetics.com/home.tmpl M.A.C's website

http://www.maccosmeticsmakeup.com/ A M.A.C fansite with a forum and some cool tips

http://www.maccosmetics.com/mac_aid/news.tmpl M.A.C has raised over 80 million dollars for the M.A.C aidsfund.. Every cent from the sale of VivaGlamLipstick goes towards fighting AIDS and HIV... way to go.

Oh NO! Not again

I'm wondering.... does anyone else question where the year went? Wasn't it just Thanksgiving? What the heck happened to summer. The Christmas season is looming - talk about turkey, parties and the 'what to get for them' gift questions.

Good gift ideas are hard to come by, so once again, here is our weekly installment of suggestions. Today, we visit one of our favorite stores and then throw a couple more in for good measure.

The LCBO - Liquor Control Board of Ontario, the place where those who live in this fine Province must go to purchase liquor - is working to make gift giving easier. This year they offer an online catalog and online purchasing - hummm, that got your attention didn't it.

We've through a picked out a couple of the cooler ideas.

#1) The Mazzetti Ferrari F2003 Grappa, for $99.95: This year’s bottle contains a model of the 2003 GA world-champion race car, immersed in exquisite Grappa di Grignolino.
#2) The Denoix Cognac Colt Gift Bottle for $129.95: Filled with Denoix Napoleon Grand Champagne Cognac.
#3) The Grolsch Lager package with art glass, for 12.99: A Dutch tradition since 1615, refreshing Grolsch Premium Lager comes in a specially designed six-pack, along with a fun, colourful art glass.

Now, gifts for the ladies. We've also done some research, girls, feel free to leave little hints to those who wish to pamper you silly with gifts.

#1) Bare Necessities offers bras, panties, men's underwear, hosiery and sleepwear from 100+ name brands. They offer a selection of over 2000 styles spans luxury designer fashions to everyday traditional styles and includes top brands like La Perla, Calvin Klein, Tommy Hilfiger, Puma, Dolce & Gabbana, Wacoal and Bali. Yes, they ship to Canada. (remember, no duty on goods manufactured in the US, however, they may be subject to Provincial sale tax and GST)

Gifts for Every Body: Find the perfect gift for everyone this holiday season at BareNecessities.com.

#2) La Vie enRose now offers online shopping as well. A recognized brand in Canada. The site offers weekly specials, contests and promotions.

#3) How could we leave 'Come as You are' off our gift giving list. Shop online or in person at one of their stores. For those of you who missed our postings in the past. The philosophy at Come As You Are is one in where they believe that sexuality is an intrinsic part of the human experience and is inseparable from other aspects of a person's life. Their online store is both informative and fun.

We'll continue working on a Christmas ideas list for you. In the meantime, feel free to share your suggestions with us. We can't be everywhere, all the time.

On other fronts.... Now pay attention - you know who you are..... my dear friend with the absolute expertise in putting together an outfit. It's been bothering me all week..... if you can't wear black stockings with red shoes, what can you wear? I personally look hideous in 'nude' or 'beige', does that mean that I can't wear my red shoes? Help! Seriously.... I need to know.

Have a Happy Cherry Day!

I love you!

Well, maybe 'love' is going a bit far..... I so appreciate you! Better? This story has to do with tires, believe it or not.

Mamma got a new set of boots for her truck today. I think the auto manufactures and the tire makers got together and decided that they would just play with all of us who drive trucks. Almost every year a new size of truck tire hits the market. Consequently, what happens is this; the tires that I need to fit my truck are always hard to get and each year they get more expensive. Thankfully getting new tires is only something I need to do once every two years.

As you might have guessed, this was the year. When spending a heap of money on rubbers, one owes it to themselves to shop around. Prices can vary as much as $50 per tire, multiply that by 4 you it means you could get stung. So, shop around is what I did. I made phone call after phone call. As it turned out, the tires I needed were very hard to find and to top it off, there were very few alternatives. Finally I found a 'friend' in JP.

JP owns JP Tire Service in Stittsville Ontario, a 'Tirecraft' franchise. I met JP through a phone call, he looked up the tires for me, checked an order status, gave me a price much less than the competition and told me they would be in by the end of the week. Of course, I couldn't say 'yeah, go ahead' on the spot.... I'm not that easy.

Instead I place a call to hubby. When I couldn't get in touch with him I call my very dear and stylin' friend Paul. 'Hey' I say, 'Need some advice got a moment?' Being the helpful one he always is, he listened to my story. 'You see, I called everywhere looking for tires for my truck, it's going to snow soon eh - so I find them at Tirecraft in Stittsville - cheaper than anywhere else, what do you think?' Right about now he is thinking... duhhhh and replies 'yeah, so what's the question?' 'Well, I was thinking, do I really need to change all four or can I go with two?' Paul asks (you can just see him rolling his eyes), 'how much tread is left, do you need to change them?' 'Well it's like this' I say 'there's about 1/4 inch left', Paul 'to the wear bars?' Me 'what bars?' 'Never mind' says Paul. 'Oh hold on' I say 'I drive a 4X4 to be safe, in snow and on bad roads - why am I going to skimp on safety and only put on two new tires when I need four?' Paul, 'I don't know, why?' Me, 'Okay, I got the point, see ya soon and thanks.'

So, I call JP back, put the tires on order. He says 'could be two days, could be three weeks' I have visions of banks of slippery snow and my beauty truck in the ditch. Two days later, JP calls to tell me my tires are in.

This morning was the day, in for my new boots. What a pleasant experience. JP turns out to be just as friendly and easy going in person as he is on the phone. His 'guys' say good morning and take my keys to put the truck in the shop. They are all polite, friendly and chatty. Wow, I was impressed, still am. I was in and out, bill paid in 40 minutes. Tell me where else you can go and change, balance and install 4 big truck tires in that amount of time.

So kudos today out to JP Tire Sales / Tirecraft in Stittsville. If you need tires, go see these folks. I am not sure if all the Tirecraft stores are the same, but if they are a fraction of what I experienced today, you can't go wrong.

As for lessons learned - it doesn't take much to make a customer happy and get them talking about you. It cost this company nothing more for this type of advertising. Why then, can retail stores not do the same?

If you know of somewhere that excels in customer service, share it with us. On the same note, if some place is revolting, we want to hear about that too.

Oh, and just in case you are thinking that this year, we won't have any snow to worry about - here's a reminder of last year - you might want to consider your options before this happens!

Have yourself a wonderful Cherry Day!

Skype to it!

Okay, yeah - the title could have been better - sorry for that.
Skype - have you heard? Repeat with me, no charge calling to any landline or cell phone until the end of the year, throughout North America. No Charge! Not a penny. No, you don't need to call another computer, call anyone, anywhere.

Now the normal excuses why you are not using it - believe me, I tried them all. #1 I do not have high-speed. Got me there, sorry you need high-speed. #2 The quality of the call sucks. No, in fact the quality is far superior to our crappy copper landlines and always on and always with service, which my cell phone is not. #3 There is always an echo or delay. No, not at all. The clarity of the call though is alarming, which I believe throws folks off. #4 I will have to pay something. Nope, not until the end of the year. #5 My calls will be listened to. No again. Security is actually higher over fiber then over the airwaves of wireless. So unless you are using wireless internet, chances are very good, you are very secure.

No need to listen to me on this one. Check them out for yourself. I can tell you that I am now making my long distant calls using this service and loving it.

Once the price packaging comes into effect in January I may be looking for an alternative. Currently I'm checking out Vonage. Yet another VoIP (voice over internet protocol - aka voice phone service using the internet) product available to consumers. I can't say I've used Vonage, but I do know folks who do and they really like it.

Vonage is working to make it easy to use their service anywhere, any time. They have just released the 'Vonage V-phone'. This is basically a phone that fits on a key chain. A pre-loaded memory stick which turns any computer into your own personal Vonage phone. The 'stick' even comes with head phones... yep, all in this tiny little gizmo. The unlimited Vonage package will run you $39.95 CND per month, with no extra charges - calls to Europe, US and across Canada. The V-phone has a one time charge of $29.95. With all internet phone services, the call quality is superior to most phone lines and the cost is well below that of standard phone companies.

Why am I on to alternatives to our current phone services. Simple. What we use today is a poor excuse on all fronts. Service is horrendous - if I have to listen to 'Emily' give me the run around and stall one more time when I call Bell Canada for a simply query, I'm gonna reach out and touch her. Cost, cost, cost. I run two phone lines, one is a seldom used fax line. We don't 'get high-speed internet out in these parts - so I can't take advantage of their 'cost saving bundles' either. Cell service... what cell service. If you stand in the exact perfect position in my office, your phone will ring, otherwise, no such luck. If you drive by and see my wandering around the yard or in the horse pasture looking like I'm going to be calling the aliens, don't worry, that's just me trying to find signal. Did I mention cost..... in the vicinity of $80 per month, with under $5 in long distance.

Oh and on the topic of quality of service. Hahahahaha! We were told a year ago, 'that's it'. Apparently we used up the last pair of lines on our road. This after my neighbor was being charged for my calls and me his, oh and the return to the party line. On a wet day the crackle and pop is so bad you cannot carry on a conversation. (thank goodness for Skype which I now use instead of the landline on bad days) Did I mention the internet. High speed... heck, there were days we were luck to hit 14,4 very sad. So we switched over to wireless high-speed with Storm internet. It costs a bit more per month, but hey, I get VoIP now too.

Yes, I am sick and tired of getting the run around and paying huge dollars for poor service. As consumers in Canada we have always been 'stuck' having to go with our one regional phone company. There has never been competition. Now, with high-speed and wireless internet the phone company is not even close to being a good deal.

You would have thought that this would have prompted them to upgrade services and standards. No, wrong again.

You owe it to yourself to check out the alternatives. Including VoIP phones and wireless high-speed.

I have one or two other observations/questions maybe you all can help me understand (nothing to do with this entry) - Why do the trashiest brides wear white and celebrate it not giving it a second though, while far more decent and reserved brides fret that they 'are not good enough' to wear it?

Is Jim Cuddy better on his own, or with Blue Rodeo, or do we care?

Have a wonderful Cherry week! Not sure what we will be on about tomorrow - tune in to find out.

Global Warming and warming up to Sir Richard

Ahhhh, the rain, more rain... raining again.... raining some more..... and our country's leadership along with our healthy consumer cousin south of us says that Global Warming is either exaggerated or non existent.... okay, perhaps some from the Federal level can explain to me why my driveway has sunk and my fields look more like mini lakes.

On to happy thoughts for this dreary day. A lovely friend sent over a link to a cute quiz. Give it a try; the Lipstick Personality Test. Yes I did it - I am personally all over the personality map (I had to go and check my lipsticks) though most put me between a #4, 6 and 7. Given that 'daughter' borrows... it is really hard to know for sure. That's all I'm saying, go do the test for yourself.

George Clooney... hummm, I've read Hot Cherry Review several times, just so George can smile back - that's sick right. So, today I'm going to add another personal fave to the list; Richard Branson.... yeah, a bit older but hey, he's got lots going for him.

Here's the low down on him. At age 56, he's still got it, both in looks (personal opinion but how many 56 year old guys do you know that look like him?) and net worth, which is in excess of $5.5 Billion US - that is a 'b'!

He is the brand champion of 'Virgin' which when I last heard, owned, ran or had direct influence on over 200 different companies. In business he is known as the guy who sees the diamond in the rough and improves on the existing rather than invents the new. There are exceptions of course, one of which being his interest in pioneering space travel for the masses - that's you and I.

He is a Brit, not a bad thing. Owns his own island - Neckar in the beautiful British Virgin Islands (no they didn't name them after him) and makes regular appearances in Canada. Sir Richard dropped out of high school at the age of 16 and has never looked back. To his credit there is; Virgin Records, Virgin Atlantic, Virgin Trains, Virgin Mobile and Virgin Galactic and in the making, Virgin Fuel. He is a philanthropist as much as a business man - on October 12th of this year, he pledged $3 Billion over 10 years to fight global warming. Did I mention he was a pretty hunky 56 year old? Oh, he's married as well, since 1989 to Joan Templeton.

I think this world would be a much happier place with more Sir Richard's kicking around. Here is another funny fact, Mr. Branson has openly admits to smoking bud and would consider selling it in his Virgin record stores, if it ever became legal.... see, happier place.

To learn more about Sir Richard Branson, click here or do as most of us do, Google him.

While we are on the 'star' topic. Last week we set up a post about a Canadian Country Music contest/show - 'Plucked'. Well, I watched the final night of the show - it was pretty disjointed and a bit disappointing. Except of course for the fact that local favorite party band Ambush won. The well deserving act took home a $35,000 credit to produce a new video and will have their current video 'put into heavy rotation'. Good for the boys, its nice to see them get this kind of break.

That's about it for a wrap for this week. We are twisting a few arms in hopes of getting our other contributors back contributing - a quick email from you might just push them along a bit.

Have a wonderful Hot Cherry weekend, stay dry, warm and dream happy thoughts of hunky older men!

Who would have thought

Did you know, George Clooney has been chosen the 'sexiest man alive' for the second year running? What do you think, is he worthy of the title? Ahhh well, I guess really not many would kick him out of bed for eating crackers.

What about the 'sexiest woman alive'? I went to find out, just so we would all know. According to 'Esquire magazine' the winner is Scarlet Johannson. Who? Exactly what I said. It is Esquire btw.... need I say more?

On other fronts.... did you know that many businesses are playing Christmas music already? Yep, I was stuck on hold yesterday listening to "let it snow" - that is just sick.

Sooner or later thoughts will move towards what to get the hard to buy for male on your list. I took some time and here are some of the 'cool tech gifts for him':

We thought this was cool and blue: The Faucet Light turns an ordinary faucet into a streaming crystal blue light source. Simply turn on your water and the internal pressure switch activates the light source. Turn off the water and the light goes off. Fun and functional for a kid's bathroom, but even better to add excitement to your wet bar or kitchen sink when you throw a cocktail party!

You know how your guy (kids, girlfriend, mother, co worker) can never remember where they put things down - well, here is the perfect gift:

"Now You Can Find It!"® locater puts a pager on all elusive things! Upgraded version includes eight RF receiver discs that beep and flash to help you quickly and easily locate a missing object.

Now for something completly different and a bit 'out there': Radio-controlled airplane that takes up to 26 fantastic aerial digital photos per flight with a simple push of a button on transmitter. Giant-size jet with twin engines can reach 1000?, climb, dive and by changing respective engine speed; easy-to-control 5-function, 2-stick transmitter. Flight battery charger, 2 flight batteries and EZ Launch takeoff system included.

The one that we really liked, the one to have: Multiple Unit Recharging Station. This station keeps up to three portable electronics recharged in a central location. Including; cell phones, MP3 players, PDAs and games.

We are going to be giving you heaps of gift ideas over the course of the next month. We'd like to hear and see yours. Don't be shy! Submit a comment, email us, add your links.

Now I need to get back to some pre-Christmas, Christmas shopping. Have a wonderful, Cherry filled day!

I've created a monster

How does it happen? One minute everything is normal, the next I have a bouncing 'Tigger' on my hands. Maybe I just shouldn't be complaining?

It all started about 14 years ago, I agreed to go out with a mullet wearing, holes in the ass of his jeans, rocker t-shirted guy. 14 years ago (or so) we got excited about one another - hyped on what the other was into adding to their energy. Despite ebbs and flows as all relationships have, the man who would not consider changing anything about his appearance - except for his colourful boxer shorts he wore under his saggy ass jeans - has adopted his wife's wacky appreciation for obscure fashion and style. Who would have thought?

We have a rule around our home, one of very few btw - if you believe in something strongly enough, I will stand by you. Well, I have always believed that there is always an abundance of opportunity and options in ones 'life'. I encourage my family and those around me to constantly be aware of this. Happiness for me is reducing and eventually eliminating the two words 'have to' from my vocabulary. To do this, I make an attempt to only do the things that balance with my way of thinking, my beliefs and my core values. As a result, my karma is far better off.


So when my wonderful spouse all of a sudden develops an addiction to eBay, what am I to do? After all, I am likely just a little bit responsible for the outcome. First I let (okay, encourage, maybe even bribe with sex... no,... not sex, that was two weeks ago when I didn't want to go to an all day auction alone) him come to the Vintage Clothing sale with me last weekend, then I tell him what type of 'things' are 'hot' in the vint world, then I tell him to check it out for himself, 'go on eBay' I say........

Well, my hubby likes clothes, adores funky shoes, but who would have thought - cufflinks. I too may have started that.... come to think about it, yep, I think I did.....yikes. You see, I picked him up two pairs of exquisite antique cufflinks a few years back, for Christmas. This spring I picked him up a couple more pairs. Each time I do this I of course have a story on how I acquired them. (cufflinks are collectable, certain ones hold very high values, the game, is to find the steals - standard seek and find stuff that goes with antique and vintage hunting)

Over the course of two evenings, my Darling has aspired to complete 4 eBay transactions, has 4 more bids in and has two more being 'watched'. At this rate, he is going to out do me by a long shot this month. Thank goodness we are out on Thursday evening!

Now on the positive side of things...... a fellow eBayer can not lecture his wife on the woes of her vintage clothing collection - now can he? Seriously, I'm happy when he's happy. I'm not sure why I just passed on my tricks to winning auctions to him though..... the whole tutorial.... 'Come here dear, watch while I out whit you opponent and win you these cufflinks.... Just what was I thinking?

In closing, yes, I stand by the 'I will support you' commitment, with my fingers crossed - perhaps he'll bore of collecting cufflinks and decide I need some help collecting clothing and boots - one can only hope. Oh and anyone one that reads my entries and knows my husband - you need not mention this little expose to him and you certainly do not need to encourage him any further with respect to bestowing the virtues of collecting men’s adornments - what will happen you ask - You know me... I will get even!

Have a wonderful Cherry Day all.

Yummy Monday!

I know you are just dying to find out about a couple of things (maybe 'dying' is a strong word); last Friday's shopping excursion and the Vintage Sale.

I'll start with the sale - Yummy, intoxicating, beautiful, abundant, tantalizing and to quote my husband and fellow clothes horse; 'what's not to like about the sale - beautiful clothes and beautiful women'.

Yes, Hubby went with me. I didn't even have to twist his arm or bribe, he came willingly - mind you it could have been the 'list' I was putting together for him should he have chosen to stay home.

The quality and selection at this year's show sale was amazing. Vendors brought with them a plethora of garments ranging from 'costume replica vintage' (vintage pieces used in productions) to trendy Jackie O outfits and adorning jewelry of every imaginable colour and composition. There were shoes, boots, hats, coats, jackets, dresses, skirts, blouses. Men’s, women’s and children’s clothing of all kinds. There were distinctive Asian silks and estate collections. There was indeed, something for everyone in attendance.

What was as interesting as the goods for sale were the sale goers themselves. Most sporting some sort of vintage piece, many in full outfits (including hair and makeup) - at times it was like walking on to a movie set. Strangers complementing one another on their tastes and opportunity of grasping their 'cool find'. The vendors were amazing as well. Good service, helpful advice all around - what a treat!

The whole 'good customer service' is still something that escapes most retail and often many of the service industry. I keep coming back to it, because so many people mention it to me. It likely has something to do with our frustration in not being able to do much about it.

What is most frustrating is that often, there are no alternatives to a product or service, or if there are, service at the competition is even more appalling. So what do we do as good consumers.... we shut up and hand over our hard earned dollars to be treated like pond scum. Sick!

As a result of Friday's shopping I have few questions I'm just going to put out there: Why is it that most (not all) women behind the cosmetic and fragrance counters treat consumers like last year's ghoulish eye shadow colour? Why when customers introduce themselves and asks a question store clerks release an audible groan? Why do Sales Associates, who get paid bonuses based on volume of sales, play hide and seek in the isle of their stores with customers looking for help? Why, when the cashier has a problem punching in a code, does she always take it out on my bread and tomatoes? Why are those exceptional store assistants not allowed to wear a bright big red bow and a gold star so that we can all find them in a crowd of imposters?

A brief recap: Ken, in computers and accessories rocks! (Kanata Ontario Future Shop) He read the fear on my face while I was trying to figure out which headset to buy. He didn't run away when I had questions. He was straightforward and seemingly honest about the product selection and what would suit my requirements. Top Kudos!

Future Shop appears to give a hoot about the customer. The store is always well staffed with courteous and knowledgeable associates. Return policy is great too. They also have this solution which is really nice at holiday time - order your product online and pick it up at the store. Perfect for those last minute shoppers - providing the item is in stock in store that is. Their delivery is very good as well, quick and reliable - no need to even brave the stores - shop online and save destroying your good karma.

Now not so good in the in store service front last week was Shoppers Drug Mart. I've said it before and I'll reiterate it here - overall I like the stores. There are a few similarities though that seem to run throughout all of the stores: Most of the cosmetic people are okay, but not outstanding to deal with - hey ladies... you are trying to sell me potions and solutions that will erase years off my face at high dollar amounts.... maybe, you'd like to smile at me and at least pretend that you think I'm worthy. Cashiers - wow is it hard to find one that seems to like their job. My Mom used to say, 'if you keep screwing your face up like that, it'll stay that way'.... perhaps this is what has happened to the cashiers?

Home Depot - I get angry that this is a huge American Corporation that does retail and customer service so well. I have never left a store feeling out of sorts. One would think that it is a pretty simple equation that Home Depot follows and I believe it is. They start at the top and train down. The attitude at the corporate level is the same at the clerk level. Now there are always going to be the bad in every basket - but the numbers seems to be greatly reduced. Kudos for doing it right - perhaps you guys can sell your template.

Indecently, the hardware store I appall - Home Hardware. I watch the commercials, I want to support my local shops and services, but these guys overall make it difficult. I was recently in a huge store in Perth Ontario. When I went to the Customer Service desk to ask where I'd find coco mat I apparently went way over the line. The two women who I disturbed (after standing patiently for over 5 minutes while they talked about their husbands and kids) were very upset with me. When I turned in the general direction of the one's pointing the other said ' we should have made her wait longer’, of course with the audible snide giggle. I turned around and left the store - I don't think they cared.

So, I often question myself, 'am I just expecting too much'? Well, 'The National Retail Federation' (American unfortunately) just released a study. Apparently, I am not alone.

Washington, DC, November 2, 2006—The best retailer for customer service doesn’t have a parking lot, a friendly greeter, or even a single store. According to the second annual NRF Foundation/American Express Customer Service Survey, online retailer Amazon.com is the nation’s top company for customer service.

Amazon.com is followed by Nordstrom, L.L.Bean, Overstock.com, and Lane Bryant. Retailers rounding out the top ten included Boscov’s, Kohl’s, REI, Lands’ End, and Macy’s in the survey conducted by BIGresearch. The top ten will be honored with the “Customers’ Choice” award, given to companies that have achieved a reputation for excellence in customer service.

“Consumers are beginning to demand more from retailers and are making conscious decisions about where to shop based on their expectations for good service,” said NRF Foundation President Tracy Mullin. “Making sure that customers have an exceptional shopping experience is at the top of the list for retailers this holiday season.”

Expectations of Customer Service on the Rise

When it comes to service, customers say they expect the most from restaurants, which had a 4.46 rating out of 5.0. Specialty stores (4.40) and department stores (4.12) were next on the list. Although they expect more from some retailers than others, shoppers’ expectations of service rose in all categories this year compared to last. According to the survey, customers’ service expectations have risen the most with warehouse clubs (a 3.86 rating this year compared to a 3.58 rating in 2005, a 7.95% increase), discount stores (3.40 vs. 3.21, a 5.88% increase) and online (3.92 vs. 3.71, a 5.75% increase).

“From flexible return policies to friendly sales associates, the definition of customer service varies from one shopper to another,” said Glenda McNeal, Senior Vice President, Retail and Emerging Industries, American Express Establishment Services. “However shoppers choose to measure service, retailers are constantly evaluating the customer experience to ensure that people are receiving the best service possible.”

I often maintain, you need to be an absolute idiot to screw up an online relationship - though many companies do without working at it. However, overall the experience should be considerably better - given that there are no inattentive sales associates and irritated cashiers to deal with. I believe the writing is on the wall for bricks and mortar retail - if they do not shape up, their revenue base is going to further migrate away from them and spend more of their dollars online, without the hassles.

We would all love to hear of your Kudos and you Disappointments - good needs to be bragged about, bad needs to be exposed. That is what Hot Cherry Review is all about.

Have a Cherry filled day!

Fakes, Flakes and Fridays

Ah, the life of the 'Friday' - relaxed, optimistic, energized and spontaneous.

I wonder, how many women spend there hard earned shopping and self pampering dollars on Fridays? Personally, though I always seem to need to, I'd rather shop any other day of the week.

Have you ever noticed how down right nasty people in grocery stores get on Fridays? (not as bad as Thursday around 4pm - stay away at all costs!) They scowl, guide their carts around the store as though they were running on high octane. The drivers huffing and puffing as they go. If you ever want to get under someone's skin on Friday - lally your way through the grocery store.... it ticks all of the racing freaks right off.

Are you one of those freaks? Stop and think about it next time - life is too short to get too upset.

Today I'm headed out to find myself a couple of things. I need a headset so I can use Skype for some of my long distance calls. I'm not really sure what makes a good headset and I'm not sure where I'm going to find it - such is the challenge.

After I secure that little piece of necessary hardware, its off to Shoppers for a pick up of a quick list. Now I like Shoppers. The staff is usually friendly, informative and willing to help you out. The one thing I don't like about the drug mart gone general grocery is the need to constantly check their pricing. I often find that their prices are as much as $3 more than the product aisles in the grocery store - same items, same products.

Speaking of which, what do you think about the new 'Loblaws brand' Supper Stores? I really do not have an opinion yet, even though I've been into the new monstrosity near my home. There is just so much - everything.

I understand that it is the Loblaws agenda to beat Wal-Mart to the punch in Canada. In our region alone, there is talk of several of these super stores. Wal-Mart - the evil American converging on us Northern is in expansion mode. They are slated to bring a huge number of their own 'Super Stores' to Ontario within the next couple of years. The little town I live outside is even getting one.... life used to be simple.

That's it for my Friday goings on. Oh, for those who are not from Canada that read this - thank you and no, still no snow here.

Have a Hot Cherry Day and weekend. I'll be reporting back about this weekend's Vintage Sale in Ottawa.

Fat lips, Ugly Women, Hair Salons

We all know how the simplest 'happenings' turn into the biggest lessons. Please sit back and grab your coffee, this one could get a little long winded.

In between appointments, I snuck into my 'hair spa' (yeah, it's a salon, but spa sounds more exotic) for a touch up of colour. I've been going to this same place for 4 years now. I keep going because I have a stylist and colourist to die for, the rest of the staff is outstanding, the owner friendly and they can usually fit me and my erratic schedule in. ('Reflections', Bank and 3rd, The Glebe, Ottawa)

So, in I go. The girls at the front, after a friendly chat send me to the back to meet up with my colourist, 'who is expecting me'. Off I toddle. On route I am greeted by another stylist, who shows me to 'my chair'. This is where is all starts to go bad.

I do the perfunctory glance around at the other ladies, in doing so, I catch the stare of death coming from a women getting her sopping mop wrapped in a towel at a wash station. About this time, I notice a large purse taking up space at the station; it's then that it comes to me.... why I was the recipient of the glare.

My colourist quickly appears and before I can settle into the chair apologizes and asks me to sit in 'this other chair'. Apparently, the huge purse was an indication that someone was occupying the chair and I should have realized this prior to lowering my butt. How stupid of me! How disrespectful..... how, could I have known!

Hold on, it gets better. I also should have realized I'd pulled a no no when all of the other women in the colour area gave me a broad smile and knowing node.... ahhh, they too must have felt the chill from the chick in the chair.

So, chicky makes her way to my ex chair, plops herself down, lets out an audible huff ( I hear this even over the pleasantries I am exchanging with my colourist). Out of no where comes an arm and a brush of a body.... why it's my new neighbor and here's what she's doing. Apparently, the stack of 20 or so magazines in front of her at 'her' station where not sufficient to keep her engaged. She took two of mine (typically not my kind of reading anyway... something to do with DYI home decorating... as if), set them down in front of her. Now, I try when ever possible to conceal my reactions to things like this, however, I wasn't able to do so this time. It was such a bazaar jester on her part, that and all of the other women (5 in total) watching the display from 'chicky', seemed to be looking at me. Smiles and knowing nods all around, we all went back to our conversation.

It was about this time that I realized that I had a book with me when I stopped for coffee next door and now I didn't. Quickly, I needed to run back over and get it. On my way back in I couldn't help but notice 'chicky' using the house phone at the front of the salon. So much for getting right down to reading those mags she plucked away from me earlier.

Now about 20 minutes has passed, I'm looking very stunning in my plastic bag over my head of hair get up when I notice that 'chicky' is actually looking through one of the mags. Then I hear it.... rippppppp. What the heck, I think and look over at her..... she is ripping pages out of the salon's magazines. I guess she wanted to take home the DYI tips..... rippppppp again... more pages make their way into her personalized pile.

Just when I thought I was going to say something to her, she stepped up to the plate...... the owner of the salon was on his was by.....'Robert, Robert, Robbbertttt - I'm in your chair next!' 'Robert, Rob-ber-t...... I can't be late, I must be on time for Clinton, they lock the doors!' 'Seriously Robert, I can't be late!'..... Yeah. As it turns out, 'chicky' was apparently heading to the sold out 'Clinton' speaking event.

Well that is where my exchange with 'chicky' pretty much ends. I do have some additions though.

Turns out, 'chicky' is Randi Shinder, the beauty and brain behind notables CLEAN™ Fragrance and Dessert Beauty™ and most recently LipFusion. ("... the first needle-free micro-injected, collagen lip enhancer) Few people know that Randi is a resident of Ottawa most think of her as being from NYC.

Judging by her actions today in the salon, perhaps Ms Shinder has spent far too much time, pushing her way around the city of stars, celebrities and importance and she simply couldn't help herself.

I'm going to give her the benefit of the doubt, knowing that all hip chicks have off days and write this one down to just that. I am not impressed though- I am rather disappointed. I would have expected a woman with such successes in business would have learned and applied a key lesson long ago.

Perception is everything. It doesn't matter to most of us who you are if you are out of line, over bearing, a down right bitch - it is simply not acceptable. Now Ms Randi could and likely is a wonderful woman, who embraces business and who had no intention of offending anyone in that salon today - maybe, however she could also be just so full of herself that she doesn't give a rat's ass who anyone is and believes that she is the only one that matters.

My point...... you never know who is watching, you never know who's company you are in. If you represent a product, service or even if you an intern at your company, the reputation of what you do, rides with you.

This little fact has escaped corporate North America and still does. I could never figure out why the first point of contact, usually a receptionist on the phone or at the front desk is one of the lowest paid employees. He or She will set the entire 'mood' of the company. They have the first point of contact and have the ability to leave the best or worse impressions. For example a rude receptionist will leave a person feeling that the rest of the company will be 'rude' as well. Perhaps not true, but, it is what is perceived.

So, in closing, Randi Shinder - I was thinking about including your product (and still might) in our 'lip enhancer lip off' - though we might have to re think that. Besides, I would assume Randi would be using her own product and truthfully her lips didn't look any better than mine...... hummmm.

Do you have a story, thought or suggestion to share with the rest of us. How do you handle a 'chicky'?

Have a Hot Cherry Day!

Waiting, waiting, waiting....

Have you ever sent an email that you were really looking forward to a response to - only to go for what feels like forever without one?
Do you start wondering if your email ever got through? On the other hand, perhaps, for some reason, theirs couldn't get through to you?
Come on, you know the feeling.

When we posted last night's blog (Get Plucked) we also sent out an invitation to the contestants to write us and tell us more about the show. In particular, how they compete, what they win.
Now I know it is an insanely early time of time for would be stars and hard working musicians to be up - but......

Okay, I'll leave it be for a bit. Maybe. I'll keep you posted on what if anything comes through. Or, I guess you can do that too, by checking back in. Maybe I'll call an executive with CMT and see what I can find out. Hummmm, do we really care?

On other fronts while I have your attention.

Vintage Clothing freaks, fans and friends of freaky fans - This weekend in Ottawa is the Annual Vintage Clothing sale at the Chateau Laurier - I'll post details later on this week. If you like anything in Vint clothing, this apparently is a wicked sale to be at. Good prices, large selections, cool venue. (yes, of course I will be there - anyone want to go?)

On the topic of clothing. We are trying to get one of the coolest, hippest ‘Hot Momma Chicks’ we know to start contributing on our very own ‘oh my good grief, you can’t go out with that on’ once a week post. We’ll keep you posted on how that goes. In the meantime though, if you have a ‘can I really wear this and get away with it’ question fire it over. We are positive she will give her feedback.

I need to run, check my email for responses and see if I can’t find that CMT phone number.

Have a Hot Cherry Day!

Get Plucked!

Yes you heard it. No we are not talking about the latest way to do eyebrows.

I stumbled upon an interesting concept for a reality show which is currently airing. Just when I thought they had used up many of the good ones, this one came rolling in.

It is called Plucked, it is a creation of 'CMT' - for you none 'country' fans, that is Country Music Television.

So what knocked my socks on this one? Well for starters, if features Canadian 'undiscovered' talent and it rockets them into the limelight. Secondly, these new comers come from across Canada. Thirdly, it is not another, get up on stage, sing, be critiqued and then voted on to win..... though I don't know how the winner is selected.

Here's the deal. The show 'plucks' six country acts from across the country and gives them a shot at the 'deal'. What exactly the 'deal' is though, sorry I can't tell you. There is something about a music video??? (Maybe someone can fill me in?)

Now you need to keep in mind, I just happened to be thumbing through a TV guide of all things when I found this show, so I haven't caught a single episode, here's what I can tell you: There are six competing, each has been featured on an episode.
Aaron Goodvin from Northern Alberta; Ambush (hot little band and perennial favorite of young and not grown up yet) from Perth, Eastern Ontario; Carla Sacco (the Shania Twin impersonation act that plays everywhere); Lisa Hewitt from Western Canada; Pear the husband wife duo from Edmonton; Mike Gouchie from somewhere in Canada (the info on the CMT site doesn't really say).

So I watched the episodes online to catch up. The 'contestants' are 'Plucked', interviewed, critiqued and prepared to make a video - right down to the wardrobe. Pointers from 'industry experts' are handed out, in some cases taken by the musicians and often not.

I wish I could tell you more about this show. I personally cheer for any opportunity given to Independent Canadian Artists. I believe we have top talent in this country that doesn't get near enough exposure and respect.

What I would really like is for someone who is on the show to leave us a comment on Hot Cherry and give us some info.

The finale is a 'marathon' presentation starting at 6pm Est. on CMT, the actual final goes off at 9 pm. Monday November 13th. Whether you are a 'country' fan or not, check it out if you get the chance, remember regardless of what they play, they are all Canadian talent and need our support.

Now speaking of Canadian talent - what do you think about the latest edition of 'Rockstar Supernova'? For those not familiar, it aired throughout the summer and was the viewer voted selection of the new front man for Supernova. Who you ask. Supernova is a band fronted by Gilby Clark ex of Guns 'n Roses, Tommy Lee and Jason Newsted - catch here, Supernova isn't really a band yet. Hummmm.

The winner of this multi week, multi episode production was Lukas Rossi - a Canadian. Many will recall last season's Rockstar - INXS and the choice of their new front man - Canadian JD Fortune. In my humble opinion, this year's show didn't come close to delivering what last season's did. Still, two seasons, many contestants later, two Canadians rally to win. Yeah, baby we've got the goods.

Invitation goes out to any one who would like to comment on any thing we've covered off here. I've also sent out an invitation to a couple of the contestants from the show 'Plucked' to give us their thoughts and more details.

Now I'm going back to my inspiration for this entry - 'Rockstar' by Canada's own Nickleback.

Things you really should know

Ahhh, the entry that gives away the little secrets. The ones that most people don't know about, the ones most people should.

How about this one to start. There are 1000's of online dating, singles, intimate and networking sites. Some are 'private' which means they do not belong to a larger network of 'online sites'. These pose virtually no problems as they keep their databases secure and do not share personal information, IP addresses and photos with other sites.

A vast majority of these sites (and others in different categories) belong to a large network. The sites if you take the time to browse through all have the same sort of template look to them. If you scroll to the bottom of the home page, there likely will be a link or a mention of the Network.
These sites are very likely to share the details of who you are. In some cases, that could be your personal profile and/or pictures, for some, the entire profile is shared and put out on all of the Network's sites.

When the entire profile or pictures are shared within the Network that also means those pictures that have been tagged as 'private' - meaning that you technically can only give access to other to view them. I say technically because what often happens is that once they are posted on a Network Affiliate site, the restriction is removed.

How much of this happens? I met a women a few years back who had posted her nude photos in a 'backdoor' limited access area of a large Network site. She was shocked when she received an email from a friend telling her that her 'private nudes' where posted in the open on a dating site. It took her over a month to get her pictures off the site - however, they are likely still floating around somewhere.

Want proof? Check out this smiley happy people and tell me they know their pictures are all over the internet.

Did you know that if you live outside of a major centre, shipping using a dedicated carrier (FedEx, UPS, Purolator) could be costing you 50% more? Did you also know that if you drop you package off at an outlet, not even the main depot, you automatically save the fuel surcharge and the extra cost.

I just recently shipped a small package to NYC. If FedEx picked up at my home office, the cost would be $36.00 more. Instead, I drove the package 20 minutes away to an outlet and saved. Not to mention, in shipping time, it cuts a day off in most cases.

Did you know that when you take your vehicle in for an oil change, it is the mandate of the Service Writer to up sell you? Did you also know that when it comes to this, for whatever reason, most customers end up paying for duplicated services? Point in hand, tire rotation is often included in spring and fall maintenance promotions, if however you go in and request a rotation with your oil change, the Service Writer is apt to try to sell you a 'maintenance package' which include the service. You however will still be billed for the rotation.

Another 'trick of the trade' is in the wording that the Service Writer uses: Instead of using phrasing, as they should; 'the suggested maintenance with respect to changing your transmission fluid if every 20,000kms' they say, you are 'due for a .......... and your warranty will be void if you do not'.

Service Recalls are one way a dealership brings money back in the door. Chances are very good that the recall has no impact on safety or performance of your vehicle, unless it specifically says 'safety recall' or similar. Chances are very good though, that you got the notice in a 'down time' for dealership service.

Dealership use a variety of means to bring a customer back in to the dealership and make money in the 'back end'. Yes, that is right. Dealerships don't make their money upfront in the sale; they make it when you go in for service. In fact, 'we' are even ranked by the dealership and automaker as customers. These rankings will determine if we get special promotions, coupons etc.

How can you make sure it is not more than the nuts getting screwed on your auto? Ask questions, demand answers that make sense and if you are not happy with the reply or have caught a person in the dealership trying to weasel your money out of your pocket - demand to see the dealer principal. They are the ones that care overall if you leave happy or ticked. If you don't get anywhere with them, go higher. (I once took a complaint about a truck engine spitting oil everywhere right up the line to the President of Ford Canada - it paid off).

Did you know that Grocery stores needs to stay within an acceptable variance concerning the 'correctness' of their barcodes? Meaning that when you check out, the bar code should be reflective of the price on the shelf. Did you know, that if you don't check your receipt and pay attention going through check out, chances are very good that you are giving the store extra money every time? Take the moment and glance through the receipt before you leave the store. I have a friend that says she catches errors in excess of $5 per week - over the course of a year, it adds up.

We'd love you to share your tips and tricks with the rest of the readers - don't be shy.
Have a Hot Cherry Day!

Damn - it's Monday - again

Welcome to yet another week in the year of 2006. Sounds rather, dismal when you put it that way though. It has been one of those years though - judging by the resounding wish of many - 'I am so looking forward to starting a fresh year'. Personally, I like to take a positive approach - if it doesn't make any difference in the grand scheme of things, there is no point in me sitting and fretting about it. Especially when there are so many worth while things to complain and seek action.

I want to respond to 'the wandering guys' entry about the death of CDs. Good topic and one that gets me going. I don't know for certain, but I think the death of the CD is a ploy - according to online and in store CD retailers there is still a very large market share that wants, must have and needs to have a physical pre recorded CD. Though sales have dropped off, there is still an incredible demand.

I know why and I'll share a story with you (you likely have had the same experience) and let you see where I am coming from.

Let me start by saying I am pretty internet/e-commerce savvy. I spend huge amounts of time each day online. I navigate several 100 new and unique websites per week. I use a wide variety of applications and online tools. I would say I am one of the more experienced users.

Today, I started to do something I've wanted to do for sometime, set up a reviews and referral section for music that I can share with you. Though there are several players in this area from a 'supply of online music' perspective, very few do it with the volume that iTunes does. It also pains me to say it, but very few do it with the 'ease' either.

First of all, with iTunes, you can browse the catalog, select the tunes you think you might like, load them on to a playlist and save. All without committing to purchase. You do need to create an account though and download the required plugins that allow you to do all of this. Not really a huge issue.

There are next to no security issues when you are working with a major provider like Apple. That is not the case with some of the other sites. I did a search for 'music downloads, Canada' and it returned 90 million responses. Needless to say, there are not that many bonified sites, but still, that's a few to go through.

I found sites that run on subscriptions, with unlimited downloads, others are per track, others per month with limits. So, how do you know which is the best for your needs, if any at all?

I can't answer that one - it involves some soul searching on your part. Here though are some things to consider before you click the 'purchase' buttons.

a) how much music do you buy per year, per month? If you don't buy anymore than a few cds a year, would you actually consider downloading on a regular basis? Do you own a MP3 player? Do you move cds from the house to the car? Do you share music with your friends? If you don't own a portable device, don't listen to cds in your car, don't share music; then chances are good that you won't be using a download service to its fullest and are likely best to just buy tracks as you want. If you find your use rate increases, then certainly consider the subscription services.

b) how technology challenged are you? Are you comfortable with dealing online, using e-commerce? Do you Google everything? Do you use email a great deal? These are all simple questions, navigating online forms, search functions, download instructions can be laborious and frustrating. Often people tell me, 'I just can't be bothered going through all of the steps'. I am sure that companies make a huge percentage of their revenue from accounts that are opened, funded and never used. Purely out of frustration, lost interest and forgotten passwords.

c) do you know what you like in music or are you more of a 'like it when I hear it' kind of person? We all tend to listen to new music that is recommended to us. With all of the choices available, it is no wonder. There are two downsides when it comes to download sites - #1 many don't have samples of the music - so if you have never heard the tune, don't know the artist, how would you know if you would like it or not. iTunes does have a sampler, which is something that I must have - experience has taught me, that just because it is on the charts, I may not like it. 2) search functions on most of the sites are either poor or you need to be exact - say you don't know exactly how 'Strait' is spelled and you enter 'Straight' - the search function, will return '0'. They are not like Google searching which assumes you made a mistake when the returns are low.

d) are you more of a radio on junkie? There are other opportunities to finding and listening to the music you want to hear. Satellite radio in Canada has exploded. Our household has been a subscriber to 'Sirius' for almost a year now. You can take Sat radio in the car with you, have it in your home, listen online and even carry it with you in the form of a player that is just like your MP3. (the just released STILETTO 100 SL100)
allows the user to do a variety of things, including an auto record of the artists who you want.... downloading for us simple folks - unit will apparently be available in Canada later this month, though is available online through Sirius US)

d) how cheap are you? If you don't want to pay to download the latest hits, there are alternatives. Peer to peer sharing is still alive and well. There are problems with free though. First of all, nothing in life is free! Keeping that in mind.... with P2P sites come of variety of bots, spies and creepy little viruses. Even the top notch 'killers' don't get them all. ('Daughter' lost a monitor to a virus last week - not to worry, her system, her virus, her using an older than Grandma, 14" low res monitor until she gets hers fixed should'a listened to Mom!).

Quality is also an issue on P2P. As well, it doesn't solve the problem if you don't know exactly what you are looking for either. Though many use the Peer to Peer offerings, there are so many problems associated with the sites, that often unless you are very computer savvy, you are best to leave them to kids and those that know how to get rid of the problems when they arrive. (ahhh, so much in life is better left to those who know.......)

Rounding out this little entry and just so you can have a good belly laugh for the day; it took me all of 2 hours to figure out how to create a playlist in iTunes. Signing up was easy, figuring out the search, add to playlist, save playlist took the time. Before you ask, yes, I read the instructions - any easier - not on your life.

Now that I've navigated through the process though, I'm set up and ready to go. I will let you know in a few days if it was worth the aggravation or, if it would have just been easier to go to the local CD store, buy a copy for $14.95, plunked it in my player on the way home and enjoy.

You can all relate, I know you can. You are just about ready to abort an entire online experience, as you have not been able to figure out how to do something. Then out of the corner of your eye, and the top right corner of your screen, you notice an icon.... you slide your mouse over it and poof - 1 hour of looking for 'how' and one click later. By the way, halogen desk lamps are extremely hot. Don't be tempted to move one close to your screen to see that top right hand corner, and then leave it there - flat screens melt quickly.

Have a wonder Hot Cherry day - we'll catch you throughout the week. Oh, almost forgot - I don't really think the CD is dead just yet - not until working online becomes a whole lot easier for men (who don't like to read instructions) and women (who can but still can't seem to figure things out) in our technology rich society.

It's Friday, it's Friday, it's Friday - so what

For those who work a conventional work week, Friday is and always has been a day to look forward to. For the past 8 months though, I personally have worked anything but 'conventional'. Consequently, one day runs into the next. For those who can't wait for the weekend, this one is for you.

Now, everyone always talks about having free time on the weekend, so few do anything with it. We are going to help you change that if you live in Eastern Ontario.

Here 's a couple of cool things going on:
The Ottawa Humane Society Auxiliary (aka the fundraisers) are holding it a few events over the course of the next few weekends - great cause, super events: (click here for more details on their events)

• 5th November: Auction Doors open at 10 a.m. and the auction starts at 11a.m. Loch March Golf and Country Club, 1755 Old Carp Rd., Ottawa. Call 613-728-5493 for details.
• 19th November: Craft Sale 10 a.m.-4 p.m. Orchard View Living Centre, 1491 Manotick Station Rd., Ottawa
• 24th and 25th November: Christmas Craft Sale during mall hours at Carlingwood Mall, Carling Avenue, Ottawa

The Ottawa Wine and Food Show begins today - another reason to look forward to this Friday! this is the 21st year in the running (how many have you been to?). Kicks off today and runs until Sunday. Click here to be transported to the details.

There is a great thing about these entries, you can leave comments. In your comments, share what's going on with other readers. No, you don't need to be from Eastern Ontario either. From wherever you are is good.

A thought to leave you with - a question asked to me last night by two of my favorite young gentleman friends: 'Why is it when us guys say we want to go out and hang out with our friends, our girlfriends complain that they have no one to hang out with. So they don't want to be alone. So, we should stay and hang out with them. Why don't they have friends to hang with like we do?'

I shrugged and wanting to avoid a great long detailed answer, told them I'd get back to them with some ideas....... Help me out here!!!!

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Old women, Young men and TVs

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If you visit this site often, you will know that we are not afraid to call a spade a spade. We are also not afraid to 'put stuff out there', random thoughts, questions and finds. We try to look at products, services and ideas with an open mind.

If by chance you - reading this - have any influence with marketers, advertisers, agencies, then please, take these thoughts back to your office with you.

As always, there is a reason for today's thoughts. I personally receive and review many magazines and ezine articles. I trend watch, I search, I collect data. The tirade I am about to embark upon began with a bit of fuel from an ad placed in the Saturday edition of our city's paper.

I can only assume that Sony has on their retainer, advertising specialists with a mandate to put more Sony products into the hands of women. This time they are not doing it with pink coloured electronics though, they've gone upscale. Sony is marketing their new BRAVIA LCD TV with the power of female endorsement.

That's right. Sony's newest version of 'pink marketing' (that is ad speak for ploys to get us girls to buy products because they make them pink) is simple, take a full page ad out, use one side to talk tech with the 'guy in our lab' and the other side of the page for the endorsements.

Here is an example: Barbra Atkin, Fashion Director at Holt says 'It's thin, sleek and stylish and adds beauty to my decor'. (just what is she talking about?) Amanda Blakley National Manager of Special Events for Rethink Breast Cancer says 'BRAVIA really brings the in-stadium or front-row experience to your couch while watching anything from sports to fashion shows'. (come on Amanda, how many fashion shows and sporting events do you really watch?) My favorite is from Jane Kerr, Senior Executive of Accenture who says 'BRAVIA HD has transformed the way I watch TV'. (What the heck?) I just don't get it, do you?

I would be willing to bet that Sony dolled out $100,000's of dollars both for these endorsements and for the full page ads. Did they hit the mark? Am I just skeptical? Does it matter to you when you make a big ticket purchase that a woman, selected by the company endorses it? Personally, I think companies need to hire average working women to tell them how to market to our segment. I would also bet that this ad was created by a firm in NYC, predominantly male team, calling themselves 'trendy' and 'in the know'.

Continuing on the subject of marketing to women, I'm going to take a run at a woman's magazine next. (we beat up on the poor boys over at AskMen all the time) This week I picked up a copy of "More". I don't know why, its title was in pink this month - kidding. I'd actually never looked at the mag prior, but caught a title that said 'celebrate your life after 40'. Needless to say, I got my knickers in a knot and paid $5 to take a closer look.

Here's the background. More magazine will be published in Canada starting in the spring of '07, by Transcontinental Media, who have this to say: 'More is the defining magazine of a powerful and empowered generation – a growing community of women over 40 who are more accomplished, more confident, more influential and more resourceful. With features on health, beauty, fashion, food and lifestyle, finance, foreign and national affairs, the arts, travel and more, More gives established women more of what they want to get more out of life.' Currently the magazine is still published by it's source, Meredith Corp. out of Des Moines Iowa.

My gripe about this magazine..... Well first - how many women really want to be reminded that they are over 40? No need to answer that one. How many women want to look like they are over 40? Dido. Now 'More' defiantly pushes the '40' something time of life. Someone want to tell the man to the right that 'he's getting older'? Go ahead and make his day.

As for content, it is pretty diverse. Everything from recipes (as if we have time) to what to do when you are Pink-Slipped after 40. Ads (lots of them) for weight loss solutions, meals in a box, products that lubricate your joints and help you sleep at night oh and we won't forget that unless we invest every penny we have right now, we are likely going to be held up in a hovel by the time we are 60.

I did like some things about this magazine there was the 'Luxe Life' a photo spread about luxury items - I think. Some of the spread showed women (yes, not 12 year old girls made up to look like women) with boobs. No kidding, and arms/legs that were not stick thin. There was another fashion spread on 'accessories', boots, shoes, and belts - pretty to look at though 90% of the pieces featured were way out of the range of most working women (come on, $2900 for a python evening bag).

Overall.... don't waste your $5! It reminds me of Oprah's magazine without the content. I also don't like the whole marketing to women over 40 thing. I just don't think these types of publications get it. It's okay to be getting older, just don't remind us that we are.

I'll leave you with this thought a friend of mine shared 'the media, the retailers and society in general makes us feel old - it is time we fought back and said 'shove it', I'll do what I want until I can't anymore, then maybe I'll consider slowing down!' I like her way of thinking. Have a Hot Cherry Day!